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Kim Holden's avatar

100% agree! I also recommend the long ramp to good sex that includes flirty texting (which is like talking, right?)

And there are so many lube choices and it comes in all sizes so you can have it stashed in purse, backpack, etc.

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Alicia Dara's avatar

Exactly! Hope you can join us on Wednesday at 1pm PDT, Kim :)

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Jennifer Silva Redmond's avatar

Yes to lube! And I'm serious about the anticipation phase too. I like looking forward to sex, like knowing my SO and I have a date for some afternoon delight (one of the perks of working from home) and my experience tells me that it helps prime the pump, too, in multiple ways. We all know the main erogenous zone is the brain, right? So thinking about having sex gets you in the mood. And we need that mental foreplay more and more as we age.

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Alicia Dara's avatar

I actually think men need more time as they age, as well. In any case, tune in on Wednesday if you can :)

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